Technology has come a long, long way for LDR relationships especially with my personal favorite, long-distance sex toys.
One remote-control sex toy that is conveniently located in my bedside table drawer is the Esthesia by Vibease. My husband and I are big fans of the original Vibease, so I was eager to try out it out and share my Esthesia review.
Esthesia by Vibease
Important Things to Know
I’ll go into more detail, but here are the most important things to know about the Esthesia:
- The Esthesia has a clitoral and G-spot stimulator. With powerful dual stimulators, you get double the pleasure. The powerful vibrations aren’t silent, but they’re quiet enough.
- It’s powered by the same smart technology as the Vibease, which means you can play with your partner from anywhere in the world.
- You can take the Esthesia for a solo ride while listening to an audiobook available in the Fantasy Store.
- It has a sexy silicone body that is safe and easy to clean.
With both Vibease products, it takes a little time to learn how to work with the technology—and there are some slight issues with the usability of the app—but once you understand how it works, the Esthesia is a great introduction to long-distance sex toys. Especially if, like me, you prefer vibrators that provide external and internal stimulation.
If you want a few more details—read on for a detailed description of my erotic experiences with the Esthesia.
Keep the Intimacy Alive
One of the big things long-distance couples have to figure out is how to keep their sex life exciting when they don’t get to see each other as much as they’d like. According to research at the Center for the Study of Long Distance Relationships, people in long-distance relationships usually live anywhere from 30 miles to 950 miles apart, with the average couple living 125 miles apart. That means they are typically only seeing each other once every month in a half—if they’re lucky.
I remember when I first started dating my husband long distance. After weeks of sexting, Skype sex, sexy videos and sexy recordings, I started wanting something more.
That’s where Vibease Esthesia comes in. It can be controlled by pushing buttons on the vibrator, or you can control it by the app.
If you’re looking to add more spice, intimacy and connection to your long-distance relationship— and you crave the internal and external stimulation—the Esthesia is a great option.
Go For the Blended O
The Esthesia is the Vibease on the next level. The soft silicone, flexible body almost feels like skin, and the carefully molded tips massage the clit and the G-spot at the same time, leading to perfectly blended orgasms. A blended orgasm is when you stimulate more than one erogenous zone at the same time. Because you are pleasuring the clitoris and G-spot at the same time, the blended orgasm is a more advanced and harder to achieve.
The easiest way to achieve a blended orgasm is with toys, such as the Esthesia. And as always, the more aroused you are, the easier it will be. Exchange some naughty texts with your long-distance love before you whip out the Esthesia.
With the Esthesia, the classic curved design allows you to alternate pressure between your clit and G-spot. Because it’s made of a very soft silicone, you can move the vibrator around, experimenting with different angles and intensities until you find your rhythm.
As your man controls the app from afar, he might tease you to prolong the pleasure. But trust me, the longer he delays your orgasm, the more intense it will be.
Don’t get me wrong: The C-spot orgasm you get from the Vibease always feels good. But imagine blending the pleasure of the clitoral orgasm with the much more intense pleasure of a G-spot orgasm. By simultaneously massaging both zones, you get a deeper, longer experience. Plus, your blended orgasm might just drive your man over the edge, too, even if he is a thousand miles away.
Another thing I love about the Esthesia is that it’s super quiet. Although the Esthesia isn’t a wearable vibrator, it’s still best when no one but you—and your man—know that you’re using it. The Esthesia is incredibly quiet, even at the highest vibration setting, so if you’re using it at home, some low music should mask the noise of the vibrator. You, on the other hand, might not be able to contain your screams.
Take Cybersex to the Next Level
The Esthesia might not be as simple as cybersex, but once you figure out how it works, you’ll be glad you did.
To use the Esthesia with your man, you both must download the Vibease Chat app.
Once you download the app, you’ll create a profile. Choose a nickname, pick your gender and upload a profile picture. The app will walk you through how to connect the Esthesia to your smartphone or tablet. Don’t forget to make sure your Bluetooth is turned on!
With the Esthesia, there are preset vibration settings but you don’t have to limit yourself to those. One of my favorite features of the Esthesia is that you—and your man—can create your own custom vibration patterns. I mean, hey, no one knows your body as well as well as you two, right? Plus, if things are getting really hot and steamy, just touch the screen to control the vibrations and build intensity in real time.
Live Out Your Fantasy
Do you wish you were cast as Anastasia Steele in 50 Shades of Grey? Well, with the Esthesia, you can pretend you are and that Christian Grey is in your bedroom.
If you ever want to use the Esthesia alone, it has a cool feature where it vibrates in sync with fantasy stories, so you can turn on a little erotica and let the vibrations do the rest. The experts at Vibease know that women like to fantasize more than visualize when they are trying to experience the Big O. In fact, on average, women have more romantic fantasies than men each month. So audio plays an important role in getting women excited.
Depending on what you’re listening to—I’m partial to audio books with names like Quick and Dirty and The Rub Down—the vibration will change. Imagine listening to Ride Me while the vibrator pulses in perfect sync. Simply connect your vibrator to your phone, select a fantasy story that suits your mood, put in your ear buds, and enjoy the ride to the book’s—and your—climax. If you’re really having a good time, you can extend the experience for as long as you want.
If you use the Esthesia on your own, pairing it up with one of the fantasy stories is definitely a fun experience.
Spice Up Your Sex Life
Where to Buy?
Buy on Vibease Best values
The verdict? My husband and I love the Esthesia. My husband knows me well, so when he was controlling the vibrations, it was just right. It was thrilling to let go and let someone else take control.
Not only is the vibrator cute—it comes in pink or purple—but it’s comfortable and waterproof. Plus, it’s USB rechargeable.
When Vibease picked the name Esthesia—it means the capacity for sensation or feeling; sensitivity—they weren’t wrong. Although there are some kinks to be worked out with the technology, when it comes to long-distance sex toys, the Esthesia is just what you need to spice up your long-distance sex life.
Have you tried this smart sex toy? Let me know what you think of my Esthesia review.
The Esthesia was provided in exchange for a review, but all views are my own. All links are an affiliate, and I make a small percentage on every purchase.
Summary: When Vibease picked the name Esthesia—it means the capacity for sensation or feeling; sensitivity—they weren’t wrong. Although there are some kinks to be worked out with the technology, when it comes to long-distance sex toys, the Esthesia is just what you need to spice up your long-distance sex life.
- Design with a nice silicone body that's safe and easy to clean
- it's a powerful vibrator that's quiet enough
- You can play with your partner even if they are anywhere in the world
- check-circleA feature that sync's the toy to fantasy stories found on the site, and vibrates accordingly
- Because it's app controlled, it takes a while to set it up, and get used to the technology. You and your partner should both learn the app to enjoy all that it offers.