Here are The Best (And Worst) Long Distance Sex Toys For 2021

Maintaining a level of intimacy long-distance can be tricky (especially during a pendemic), and whether you’re in a fresh LDR or you’ve been going for some time, it’s important to keep that spark alive! Long distance sex toys are often remote controlled and have a ton of features. You can start slow and build up, or dive right in together, either way we’ve made the ultimate list of different toys to help you decide according to your preferences. It’s time to work on your intimacy together…


Best Long Distance Two Way Control Sex Toy

Kiiroo Onyx 2 & Pearl 2
onyx 2 and pearl 2 set

Kiiroo Onyx 2 & Pearl 2 upgrade pick

A double-pack that packs a punch! The Kiiroo Onyx2 is an automatic masturbator with 10 contracting rings, replicating a real feeling of sex and delivering up to 140 strokes per minute.
  •   Both Onyx and Pearl2 are beautifully designed and feel really sexy.
  •    One of the best sex toys online sync for real-time long-distance sex.
  •    The Pearl 2 is made out of a soft material that feels good and is easy to clean.
  • The Onyx has a Fleshlight superskin sleeve that feels pretty realistic.
  • 1-year warranty.
  • The battery should comfortably last for an hour, charged with a USB cable.
  •   The Onyx is pretty loud, which can be a bit distracting.
  •    The actual sensations from the contracting rings for Onyx are pleasurable, but might not be enough to bring to orgasm.
  •    Although buying these product together is cheaper, it’s still a steep investment.
  • Some men might not like the pumping motion of the Kiiroo Onyx.

Feature-packed with a luxurious look, this combo is perfect for couples who want to bridge the gap and get their kicks – together.

A double-pack that packs a punch! The Kiiroo Onyx2 is an automatic masturbator with 10 contracting rings, replicating a real feeling of sex and delivering up to 140 strokes per minute. The Pearl2 is a touch-sensitive G-spot vibrator that can be used for solo play, connected to adult content, or synced with a partner device. Its shape is perfect for G-spot stimulation, but it can also be used externally.

The design of each sex toy is fabulous, but the discrete and sophisticated look of the Kiiroo Onyx 2 deserves special mention. The Feel Connect app is excellent; it’s intuitive and reliable, so there are no breaks in special moments to argue with a smartphone. Although these sex toys are expensive, buying the bundle can save a substantial amount of cash.


My partner and I love the Onyx and Pearl toys. We had fun discovering new ways to pleasure each other and discovering new ways to reach climax together. Especially for couples new to long distance, these devices can transform your long-distance relationship. Being able to see each other while we fool around makes the distance not so bad.

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Best Long Distance Two Way Control Sex Toy

Kiiroo Titan & Fuse
Titan + fuse

Kiiroo Titan & Fuse upgrade pick

A personal favorite! The Kiiroo Titan is a handheld vibrating stroker and the Fuse is a dual-stimulating vibrator.
  • Luxurious design and body-safe construction.
  • Impressive vibration from both sex toys.
  • The app provides long distance control, as well as syncing with adult content.
  • Although buying these sex toys together saves a little cash, it’s still an expensive investment.
  • It can take a while to charge the batteries on these toys – make sure they’re charged if you’re planning to connect with your long distance partner!

A treat for couples who want to be as close as possible, even when they’re far apart. The Rolls Royce of couples’ long distance sex toys.

A personal favorite! The Kiiroo Titan is a handheld vibrating stroker and the Fuse is a dual-stimulating vibrator. Each toy syncs with the other to give real-time shared sensations, bridging the gap when you’re miles apart.

And if you’re going solo, both sex toys sync with adult content – some of which can be accessed for free with a voucher in the box – which helps you bring your fantasies to life!

This is a pretty expensive set, and some men may prefer to spend their money on an automatic stroker. It’s also worth noting that charging times for both sex toys can be quite substantial – which can be a mood killer if you need to wait for batteries to juice up!

Both sex toys benefit from innovative design, high-quality, body-safe materials, and total control from the smartphone app. It’s the ultimate treat for long distance couples who want to keep the intimacy and excitement alive.

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Best Long Distance Two Way Control Sex Toy

Max & Nora
Lovense max and nora

Max & Nora also great

Meet Lovense Max and Nora. Lovense Max is a stroker with a realistic feel, and Lovense Nora is a vibrator that delivers powerful sensations.
  • Both toys are well-designed, with realistic sensations.
  • Body-safe construction.
  • Waterproof for aqua activities.
  • Wireless control and USB charging.
  • Despite the bundle savings, these are still expensive sex toys.
  • Some men may want to spend a little more and get an automatic stroker.

Meet Lovense Max and Nora. Lovense Max is a stroker with a realistic feel, and Lovense Nora is a vibrator that delivers powerful sensations. Together, they’re an unstoppable force for sexy encounters – no matter the distance between you and your partner.

Lovense  Max and Nora look great, they feel fantastic, and they can both be controlled using a free smartphone app. For couples that are far apart, this helps you to keep a sexy spark alive. Both toys are waterproof, and Nora can be recharged using a USB cable. You’ll save some cash by purchasing these toys together, but it’s still a hefty investment. If you have the money to spare, treat yourselves!


For couples that love anal play – or want to try it out – there are some fabulous long distance butt plugs to try. These are the very best:

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Best Long Distance Anal Sex Toy

Lovense Hush
Here are The Best (And Worst) Long Distance Sex Toys For 2021

Lovense Hush runner-up

If you’re looking for anal toy with a grander stature and plenty of girth, the Hush from Lovense is a luxurious, high-end option.
  • Plenty of girth for experienced anal toy users.
  • The smartphone app gives long distance control to your partner, no matter how far apart you are.
  • Great design, and the external materials are soft and body-safe.
  • Totally waterproof.
  • The cost. The Hush is feature-packed, and the price tag reflects that.
  • This butt plug may be called Hush, but it’s not particularly quiet. And the harder you go, the noisier it is. Fair warning!
  • If you’re wearing heavy clothes or layers, the connection can drop.

A toy that’s probably better for a more experience anal play enthusiast, the Lovense Hush is full of great features and wild vibrations. 

If you’re looking for anal toy with a grander stature and plenty of girth, the Hush from Lovense is a luxurious, high-end option. It’s beautifully-designed, and the vibrations are sensational. In fact, it’s probably the most powerful anal toy on the market right now.

Like the Ditto, it’s controlled using a smartphone app. This gives your partner (or you – if you’re in charge!) full responsibility for your pleasure. Theoretically, you can use it in public, but the power – and noise! – from the Hush might make it better for fun behind closed doors!

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Other Long Distance Sex Toys:

Here are some other toys we’ve tried out that didn’t make it to be our favorite, but still worth mentioning.

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Best Long Distance G-Spot Sex Toy

Lovense Lush 2
Here are The Best (And Worst) Long Distance Sex Toys For 2021

Lovense Lush 2 our pick

The Lovense Lush became an instant hit among long-distance couples. If you love the First Lush, there’s a high chance that you will love the Lush 2 even more!
  • There is an array of options for app controls.
  • The construction of the toy is of high-quality and is super comfortable.
  • The antenna is very flexible.
  • Its powerful vibrations are the best in the market.
  • It is waterproof and easy to maintain.
  • The customer service is very prompt.
  • It offers a great hands-free experience.
  • This love egg is easy to insert.
  • The Lovense Lush 2 can be used without an app.
  • It comes in discreet packaging.
  • The connectivity issues can interrupt your play.
  • The external tail is not very useful for clitoral foreplay.
  • It does not come with a storage pouch.

The Lovense Lush 2 is the upgrade to the earlier version of Lovense Lush.

The toy has a premium smooth silicone construction, which feels silky and soft on sensitive areas.

Like its predecessor, the Lush 2 is also rechargeable, has customizable vibrations, and lightweight. This versatile toy has plenty of features that allow you to spice up your bedroom fun. The brand has taken consumer recommendations seriously. They have made improvements on the antenna and the connectivity.

The feature that most of you are going to appreciate is the remote controls of this toy. It’s perfect for long-distance couples to make the best of their intimate time. The toy has app-control features, which implies that you can operate the vibrations from a distance.

You are also going to enjoy the versatility of this egg vibrator. It features vibration modes like vibe with a partner’s touch, music beats control, and voice control. The app-control is a fabulous make-over that enables couples to enjoy naughty public play.

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Best Long Distance G-Spot Sex Toy

OhMiBod Esca 2
OhMiBod Esca

OhMiBod Esca 2 also great

Another sophisticated design that does the job just right. A great choice for long distance couples who are confident using an app. Don’t forget your charging cable!
  • Wireless control, using the app, allows long distance couples to maintain intimacy, even when far apart.
  • Attractive design with body-safe materials.
  • Vibration intensity can be as gentle or strong as you like.
  • The Esca 2’s small size and quiet operation make it ideal for travel.
  • It’s another fairly expensive vibrator.
  • The battery life is a bit lackluster, when compared with other similar vibrators. Make sure it’s fully charged before you get going!

The runner up in this category is the OhMiBod Esca 2. Also in its second generation, the Esca is a beautifully-designed Bluetooth wireless wearable vibrator, that’s controlled either by at close range, or via the Feel Connect app from anywhere in the world. As long as you and your partner have internet access, you’ll be able to make a sexy connection!

The Esca 2 is small enough to be inserted and worn comfortably, while the vibrations can be as strong or gentle as you – or your partner – desire. This vibrator hits the G-spot with no difficulty, and the body-safe silicone is soft and sturdy.

There’s a cute little LED light on the antenna, which might not be to everyone’s liking (particularly if you’re trying to be discreet at night!), but it’s a minor distraction. The battery life isn’t fantastic, but the Esca is 2 is easy to recharge with the included USB cable.

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Best Long Distance Butt Plug Sex Toy

We-Vibe Ditto
Here are The Best (And Worst) Long Distance Sex Toys For 2021

We-Vibe Ditto Butt Plug runner-up

An excellent butt plug for beginners right through to experts. Non-intimidating and powerful; a great combination. 
  • Small and non-intimidating, especially for beginners.
  • Powerful vibrations.
  • Size and flexibility make it ideal to use while out and about.
  • It’ll last for 2 hours on a single charge.
  • Body-safe materials.
  • It’s expensive. If you’re unsure about anal sex toys, it might be better to start with something more budget-friendly.
  • For some users, the small size of this butt plug can mean it doesn’t quite hit the prostate.

Don’t let the Ditto’s small stature fool you; it’s a powerful little toy that will provide everything from a gentle rumble through to intense stimulation. It’s a great choice for beginners, as it’s relatively easy to insert, has a flexible neck, and is made from soft, body-safe silicone. The Ditto’s size makes it perfect for public play, too.

The best part for couples in a long distance relationship is that the Ditto butt plug is controlled using the free smartphone app. Simply sync with your partner and enjoy the excitement of shared control!

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Best Long Distance Clitoral Sex Toy


Vibease our pick

A quiet, powerful vibe that can be controlled anywhere.
  • The Vibease is a quiet and powerful toy.
  • Long distance control makes it a good choice for long distance couples.
  • It’s made from soft and body-safe silicone.
  • It’s not the most expensive toy, but the Vibease definitely isn’t cheap.
  • Like most apps, there can occasionally be drops in connection and responsiveness.

The connoisseur’s clitoral vibrator. The Vibease is a great-looking wearable vibrator with a wide range of settings designed solely for female pleasure. 

This wearable vibrator looks fantastic from the moment you take it out of the box. A luxury vibe with a luxury design – we all need to spoil ourselves sometimes!

It’s not all looks, however. The Vibease is as powerful as you want it to be. Looking for gentle rumbles to get you in the mood? No problem. Want to ramp it up to earth-shattering vibrations? It’s got you covered too!

Via Bluetooth controls, which can be handed over to your partner via the app, make using the Vibease really straightforward. It’s nice and discreet, so you can wear the Vibease in public without causing a scene.

The toy itself won’t give you away. Vibrations are super quiet, particularly when you’re out and about in a busy area. And if you’re looking for something really different, Vibease offers erotic stories that can be synced with the toy, so you get good vibrations at all the right moments!

This vibrator is waterproof, USB-rechargeable, and made from body-safe silicone.The Vibease isn’t cheap, but it’s well worth the investment.

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Best Long Distance G-Spot Sex Toy

We-Vibe Sync
Here are The Best (And Worst) Long Distance Sex Toys For 2021

We-Vibe Sync runner-up

The vibe that’s built for couples! When you’re apart, Bluetooth control allows your partner to take control, but when you’re together, it’s even better!
  • The We-Vibe Sync innovative design is impressive.
  • A good choice for long distance couples, thanks to long distance control via the smartphone app.
  • We-Vibe’s customer service is excellent.
  • The We-Vibe Sync isn’t as powerful as other sex toys.
  • It’s one of the most expensive sex toys in this category.
  • If your partner is generously-sized, there might not be room to accommodate this toy.

The shape of the toy gives your partner their fair share of the vibrations while you’re having sex. It’s completely mind-blowing.

The design of this G-spot vibrator is great; its adjustable arms allow anyone to find the perfect fit to hit the sweet spot. While a girthier partner might struggle to find room, for most people it’s the perfect way to connect when you’re finally reunited in person.

The We-Vibe Sync is made from body-safe silicone and it’s completely waterproof. Recharge the battery with the included USB cable, and keep your toy safe with the discreet storage case – which also doubles as a charging station which is a nice touch!

It’s worth noting that this product is one of the most expensive G-spot vibrators on the market, and we-vibe sync’s vibrations aren’t as powerful as other models. If it’s power you need, it may be better to look elsewhere.


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  3. Great review, some of our favourites featured here too!!

  4. I’m looking into purchasing the Vibease for my BF. On the app is the item only accessible by him and him alone?

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    Alexander Waddington June 10, 2018 at 3:31 am

    Do you have anything that my gf could conteolvfor me. You were first up in google and this didn’t match my search.

  6. As per above I’ve heard very bad reviews around Lovense and We Vibe products. Shame they are so poorly made and supported as there isn’t a lot of competition in this space yet so options are very limited. Very frustrating trying to find something that can be app controlled. This should be a boon!

  7. We-Vibe is horrible! Don’t waste any money on it. Theapp barely works and the connectivity will frustrate and infuriate you. Very poor unit for the price point $$$. Both the app and the remote controller have a hard time staying connected. Wish I could.get my money back but the place we doesn’t allow refunds which is understandable but bs because the unit fails. Also pretty upset that this lady would write such a review.

    Jennifer, have you actually tried this in a real setting? Unbelievably horrendous product because it doesn’t stay connected!

  8. I really appreciate this post. I’ve been looking all over for this!

  9. This has certainly opened up a new set of options for my special girl, and I. Linked her this page, and we’re both eager to give this a whirl.

  10. These are very interesting! I’m in a ldr for 2 years, and never tried any of these – I should share this article with her

  11. Wow all I can say is wow thx but no thx

  12. Superb review about sex toy vibrators.

  13. I did not know about a sex toy that I can control using app or bluetooth. Awesome. Thanks.

  14. Excellent reviews.

  15. I could not resist commenting. Perfectly written!

  16. I always thought that you had to go to someone to have molds made. Had no idea you can do it from home haha! That is very daring and I personally wouldn’t do it on myself but I can see guys having a easier time with that one.

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