Here are the Best (and Worst) Long-Distance Remote Control Sex Toys

After 27 hours of research and testing 10 different long-distance sex toys, we believe that OhMiBod Esca is the best G-spot, wearable remote control vibrator when starting out with long-distance sex.

Powerful G-spot vibrations, reliable Bluetooth connection, compatibility with most mobile devices and still around $100 (when using our 15% off coupon code) - we sure it will add spark to your relationship.

Our choice for one way control long-distance sex toy.

Price: $119 $101 (when using our 15% off coupon code)

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Summary: If you are interested in a G-spot vibrator, OhMiBod Esca is an easy first step to experiment with long-distance sex toys. If you find out it's your thing, later on, you can get other Kiiroo toys to sync with your OhMiBod Esca.

If you are ready to the next level with your long-distance sex, we recommend the Fleshlight Launch combined with Kiiroo Fuse. While much more expensive than the other toys, we think it’s the best for two-way control.

Our choice for two-way control long-distance sex.

Price: $409 $368 (when using our 10% off coupon code)

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Summary: While the Fleshlight Launch + Kiiroo Fuse couple set is quite expensive, we think the extra cost might worth it if you are interested in a great two-way control experience.

Sex and Long Distance Relationship

 

The Competitors

#1 - OhMiBod Esca ($101)

OhMiBod Esca is favorite wearable, internal vibrators for women. This device connects with the Feel Connect app, and with it, your partner can control your sexual pleasure from anywhere in the world. 

OhMiBod Esca syncs the vibrations of your device with your partner's toy to make it work from anywhere in the world.

Also, you can keep the toy inside of you during the day, make your partner surprise you with vibrations throughout the day, using his phone.

Product: OhMiBod Esca 

Price: $119 $101 (When using our 15% discount code)

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What we like
  • OhmiBod Esca is made out of a soft material that feels good and is easy to clean.
  • Powerful G-Spot vibrations.
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    Can be sync with other Kiiroo toys.
What we don't like
  • Up to an hour use time.

Summary: If you are interested in a wearable internal vibrator, OhMiBod Esca is an easy first step to experiment with long distance sex toys. If you like it, later on, you can get other Kiiroo toys to sync with your OhMiBod Esca.

#2 - Vibease ($87)

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Vibease

I love, love, love the Vibease. I think this one is the best wearable external vibrators. It’s priced well within most people’s budgets and it is overall reliable and – the best part, obviously – it’s lots of fun.

The Vibease is wearable, fits in your panties and is (almost!) completely silent. It is very similar to an egg vibrator. 

The Vibease app is available on both the Google Play Store and the Apple App Store

Cons of the Vibease Vibrator

The disadvantage of this wireless vibrator is that there are no matching toys for your male or female partner to be able to partake in mutual play. But I think the fun of them controlling it while you’re out in public might make up for that.

Nestle it neatly in your panties. It's important to get yourself comfortable with the device in your underwear before moving or going anywhere. The Vibease can shift out of place if it's not placed correctly before hand. 

I suggest placing it in your underwear and doing some squats and leg movements for the Vibease to find its natural place within your curvatures. Then, enjoy the pleasure on-the-go or in your home. 

Vibease App Compatibility 

The Vibease vibrator has a wide compatibility range and services that you can use the device with. One fun feature is the Vibease Fantasy Store where users can enjoy the pleasure of vibrations in sync with erotica published on the store. 

Also, the device is known to have connectivity issues where it can disconnect from the app at inopportune times.

Product: Vibease

Price: $119 $87 (When using our 27% discount code)

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What I like
  • It's really pretty, made of a very soft silicone that almost mimics the feel of skin.
  • It's very quiet.
  • There’s a huge marketplace of erotic stories that you can listen to while using your Vibease.
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    You can use it solo or by letting your partner take control via the app.
What I don't like
  • It's designed to be a wearable, but if you plan on walking around with it, it might get out of place.
  • The app does not always work as it should, it can lose connection at inopportune times.

Summary: It can add some spice to your long-distance sex life without being an enormous investment. If you want an external, wearable, Internet-controlled vibrator, then I think the Vibease is one of the best options out there.

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Fleshlight Launch + Kiiroo Fuse couple set our favorites for two-way sex play. If you both want the thrill of a remote-controlled vibrator you can get it with this paired toys.

While more expensive than some other sex toys, it’s really worth the cost when you consider the two-way buzz you both get. 

You may be thinking, what does all of this means for you? It syncs up the movement of your toy with the movement of your partner’s so that you are replicating the give and take of an in-person experience.

This means that when you close your eyes, the sensations and physical pleasure will mimic that of a real session with your partner, somewhat bridging the sexual gap between you.

What about same sex relationships?

Kiiroo also offers sets for female same-sex couples and male same-sex couples. It's a great solution for sex toys for couples in same-sex relationships that doesn't cut down on device compatibility or features when using same sex packages. 

Product: Fleshlight Launch + Kiiroo Fuse Couple Set

Price: $409 $368 (When using our 10% discount code)

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What we like
  • Touch sensitive and sync amazingly well with other Kiiroo devices.
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    Easy setup - takes a few minutes to connect with your partner.
What we don't like
  • The most expensive toys.
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    The Fleshlight Launch is quite bulky.

Summary: While the Fleshlight Launch + Kiiroo Fuse couple set is quite expensive​, we think the extra cost might worth it if you are interested in great two-way control experience.

Our 2nd choice for two-way control experience is the Kiiroo Onyx2 combined with the Pearl2. The devices work both ways and connect with each other to provide stimulation for both partners.

Onyx 2 has a serious thrust power (it reaches 140 strokes per minutes), and the Pearl2 is designed as a powerful, touch-sensitive G-spot vibrator.

Product: Kiiroo Onyx2 + Pearl2

Price: $299 $254 (When using our 15% discount code)

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What we like
  • The Pearl 2 is made out of a soft material that feels good and is easy to clean.
  • Sync amazingly well with other Kiiroo devices.
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    Easy setup - takes a few minutes to connect with your partner.
What we don't like
  • The Onyx 2 is pretty loud, which can be a bit distracting.
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    The actual sensations from the contracting rings inside the Onyx2 are pleasurable, but might not be enough to bring to orgasm.
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    No clitoral stimulation for the Pearl2.

Summary: If you are content with reduced sensations, the Onyx2 combined with the Pearl2 is a great cheaper option for two-way control experience.

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The Lovense Lush is another good solution for a vibe you can use solo or have it controlled by your partner. Unlike some vibrators that you slip into your panties (like the Vibease), the Lush is an internal vibrator, which makes it a little bit more discrete and a little more secure.

Is the Lush Loud?

One of the things I like most about this remote control vibrator is that it’s an internal vibrator. The material is super comfortable, and when inserted, it’s nearly silent, so you don’t have to worry about anyone hearing it. (Whether they hear your moans is entirely up to you!)

Product: Lovense Lush

Price: $99

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What I like
  • One of the most powerful remote-controlled bullet vibrators out there
  • High quality and super comfortable silicone material
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    Various control settings using the mobile app and a messaging app to notify your partner
What I don't like
  • Connectivity issues might disrupt play.
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    The external tail does provide some minor clitoral vibratory stimulation. However, it is not enough to use it as the main source of clitoral foreplay.

Summary: The Lovense Lush is a great way to have fun inside (and outside) the bedroom. The vibrations are powerful yet nearly silent, and the bendable Bluetooth antenna makes it one of the longest control range wearable Bluetooth vibrators.

 
Lovense Max

“Max” and “Nora” are his and hers toys that can be controlled from a distance—ANY distance. 

Nora has a vibrating arm to arouse your clit and rotating beads for internal stimulation; the vibration and rotation are what your partner will control. 

The Max is a realistic skin-like masturbation sleeve that combines vibration and contraction to simulate sex.

Product: Lovense Max and Nora

Price: $190

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What I like
  • Both toys have multiple sensations that can get you off.
  • You can control both toys from the toys or the mobile app.
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    You can use your music to set the vibrations.
What I don't like
  • The Nora's vibrations are not that strong.
  • The Max looks discreet but lacks the appeal.
  • Max's electric air pump to provide suction and vibrations is barely noticeable even on high.
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    The Max may be too tight for well-endowed men.

Summary: The Max & Nora combination is a great idea for experiencing long-distance sex. However, there are a quite a few issues with both toys.

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The Lovense Hush butt plug can be used for short range and long range control through its app. It can be synced to music and vibrates according to sound waves synced to it, so essentially, there's a limitless array of pleasure than can be enjoyed with this butt plug.

Most anal plugs are not equipped with vibrations, so couples, and singles, inevitably miss out on the extra stimulation that this device already has built in. It's our top choice in the anal category.

Product: Lovense Hush

Price: $99

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What I like
  • The smooth, inviting body-safe silicone feels just right
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    The vibrations are definitely strong.
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     The touch pad is easy to use and intuitive.
What I don't like
  • It's quiet enough when used in busy public places, not in quiet places.
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    The curved antennae press a little too hard into the tailbone.

Summary: Hush is a great toy for bringing some serious excitement to anal play, particularly in a long-distance relationship where you need to keep things fresh and sexy.

vibratorThe We-Vibe is shaped so that it can stimulate your clit and your G-spot at the same time. This one is a cross between a traditional vibrator and an egg vibrator.

 

How Does the We-Vibe Work?

When it comes to vibrations, there are 10 modes to choose from, which include the standard vibrate, pulse, and wave, and the more intriguingly named bounce, cha cha cha, and peak. If you want to change things up, your partner can make a custom playlist, choosing a different vibe, duration, and intensity and surprise you with it. Or you can make your own, and let him control it! Half the fun of introducing a toy into your long-distance sex life is experimenting.

Product: We-Vibe

Price: $156

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What I like
  • Perfect shape for simultaneous internal and external play
  • You can use it solo or with your partner
  • You and your man can use it during sex, both of you can enjoy the vibrations
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    10 modes to choose from, even sync to your music for a different vibe
What I don't like
  • It may not fit perfectly for all, and may take a few tries before getting comfortable
  • The app crashes sometimes in the worst timing
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    Some find it uncomfortable to use during sex
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    Don't have complementary sex toy for your partner

Summary: When you're finally together, you can go ahead and try it out and maybe enjoy it together. Until then, we won't recommend you to count too much on its long-distance sex capabilities.

Special for SurviveLDR readers: Use our promo code for a 5% discount on your We-Vibe purchase.

Whatever remote controlled vibrator or sex toy you choose, it’s going to add some spice to your long-distance love, and who says you have to pick just one? Maybe start with one only your partner will control and then upgrade to synchronized toys after that. The point is to have fun and don’t be afraid to experiment!

Comparison - Remote Control Vibrators 

Product

Specs

Our Rating

Coupon Code

Use

G-Spot wearable vibrator


Price

$119 $101

(When using our 15% discount code)


Control

One way control

 Claim your free 15% discount promo code for your Kiiroo purchase (Over $44 in savings!).

Use

Clitoral wearable vibrator


Price

$119 $87

(When using our 27% discount code)


Control

One way control

Claim your free 27% discount promo code for your Vibease purchase (Over $30 in savings!).

Use

Clitoral and G-spot vibrator &
Male masturbator

Price

$409 $368

(When using our 10% discount code)


Control

2 Way Control 

Claim your free 10% discount promo code for your Kiiroo purchase (Over $40 in savings!).

Use

G-spot vibrator &
Male masturbator


Price

$299 $254

(When using our 15% discount code)


Control

Two way control

Claim your free 15% discount promo code for your Kiiroo purchase (Over $44 in savings!).

Use

Wearable butt plug


Price

$119


 Control

One way control

Visit the Lovense Shop

Use

Wearable G-Spot vibrator


Price

$119


 Control

One way control

Visit the Lovense Shop

Lovense Max and Nora

Use

G-spot vibrator &
Male masturbator


Price

$190


Control

Two way control

Visit the Lovense Shop

Use

Clitoral and G-spot wearable vibrator


Price

$156


 Control

One way control

 Use our promo code for a 5% discount on your We-Vibe purchase.

Claim Your Free 15% Discount Promo Code For Your Kiiroo Purchase (Over $44 in Savings!)

About the Author Jennifer Craig

Jennifer Craig has been in a successful long-distance relationship and started SurviveLDR to encourage those who want to pursue love with partners in far land.

  • Britanica says:

    I always thought that you had to go to someone to have molds made. Had no idea you can do it from home haha! That is very daring and I personally wouldn’t do it on myself but I can see guys having a easier time with that one.

  • Frank says:

    I could not resist commenting. Perfectly written!

  • Joe says:

    Excellent reviews.

  • I did not know about a sex toy that I can control using app or bluetooth. Awesome. Thanks.

  • Superb review about sex toy vibrators.

  • Amy says:

    Wow all I can say is wow thx but no thx

  • Matt says:

    These are very interesting! I’m in a ldr for 2 years, and never tried any of these – I should share this article with her

  • Wolfe says:

    This has certainly opened up a new set of options for my special girl, and I. Linked her this page, and we’re both eager to give this a whirl.

  • Gupttindia says:

    I really appreciate this post. I’ve been looking all over for this!

  • Chris says:

    We-Vibe is horrible! Don’t waste any money on it. Theapp barely works and the connectivity will frustrate and infuriate you. Very poor unit for the price point $$$. Both the app and the remote controller have a hard time staying connected. Wish I could.get my money back but the place we got.it doesn’t allow refunds which is understandable but bs because the unit fails. Also pretty upset that this lady would write such a review.

    Jennifer, have you actually tried this in a real setting? Unbelievably horrendous product because it doesn’t stay connected!

  • M says:

    As per above I’ve heard very bad reviews around Lovense and We Vibe products. Shame they are so poorly made and supported as there isn’t a lot of competition in this space yet so options are very limited. Very frustrating trying to find something that can be app controlled. This should be a boon!

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