After spending over 27 hours of research, and testing ten different long-distance sex toys, I think the Vibease for external, clitoral stimulation and the OhMiBod Esca for internal, G-Spot stimulation are the best long-distance remote control vibrators.
The Lovense Lush is another good solution for a vibe you can use solo or have it controlled by your partner. Unlike some vibrators that you slip into your panties (like the Vibease), the Lush is an internal vibrator, which makes it a little bit more discrete and a little more secure.
One of the things I like most about this remote control vibrator is that it’s an internal vibrator. The material is super comfortable, and when inserted, it’s nearly silent, so you don’t have to worry about anyone hearing it. (Whether they hear your moans is entirely up to you!)
Product: Lovense Lush
Summary: The Lovense Lush is a great way to have fun inside (and outside) the bedroom. The vibrations are powerful yet nearly silent, and the bendable Bluetooth antenna makes it one of the longest control range wearable Bluetooth vibrators.
This toy is designed solely for woman’s pleasure… but nestles neatly into the woman’s panties to stimulate from the outside.
The Vibease Vibrator is controllable by your partner through a smart phone, tablet, or computer. The external stimulation is very quiet, almost completely silent.
With this toy, your partner controls all the settings —which means you discreetly receive his loving touches in ways he wants you to feel them.
$ 119 $87
Summary: It can add some spice to your long-distance sex life without being an enormous investment. If you want an external, wearable, Internet-controlled vibrator, then I think the Vibease is one of the best option out there.
Internal stimulation… I highly recommend the OhMiBod Esca.
This toy is designed solely for women’s pleasure — but on a “deeper” level.
The OhMiBod Esca is a remote controlled vibrator kept inside of you for stronger internal stimulation.
Now your partner could surprise you with vibrations at any time of the day, letting you know he’s thinking of you
All he has to do is control the toy from his smartphone, tablet, computer or his own sex toy.
The material is soft, smooth, and easy to clean
Summary: If you are interested in a wearable internal vibrator, OhMiBod Esca is an easy first step to experiment with long distance sex toys. If you like it, later on, you can get other Kiiroo toys to sync with your OhMiBod Esca.
If you are ready to take your long-distance sex to the next level, I recommend you the Fleshlight Launch + Kiiroo Fuse Couple Set for two-way long-distance sex
The guy and the girl each have their own toy
He controls the vibrations you feel, while you control how he’s stroked
It truly makes you feel like you’re there with your partner…
And I believe it’s the most pleasurable way to share mind-blowing orgasms over distance with two-way control
Our 2nd choice for two-way control experience is the Kiiroo Onyx2 combined with the Pearl2. The devices work both ways and connect with each other to provide stimulation for both partners.
Onyx 2 has a serious thrust power (it reaches 140 strokes per minutes), and the Pearl2 is designed as a powerful, touch-sensitive G-spot vibrator.
Nora has a vibrating arm to arouse your clit and rotating beads for internal stimulation; the vibration and rotation are what your partner will control.
The Max is a realistic skin-like masturbation sleeve that combines vibration and contraction to simulate sex.
Product: Lovense Max and Nora
Summary: The Max & Nora combination is a great idea for experiencing long-distance sex. However, there are a quite a few issues with both toys.
The Lovense Hush butt plug can be used for short range and long range control through its app. It can be synced to music and vibrates according to sound waves synced to it, so essentially, there's a limitless array of pleasure than can be enjoyed with this butt plug.
Most anal plugs are not equipped with vibrations, so couples, and singles, inevitably miss out on the extra stimulation that this device already has built in. It's our top choice in the anal category.
Product: Lovense Hush
Summary: Hush is a great toy for bringing some serious excitement to anal play, particularly in a long-distance relationship where you need to keep things fresh and sexy.
Whatever remote controlled vibrator or sex toy you choose, it’s going to add some spice to your long-distance love, and who says you have to pick just one? Maybe start with one only your partner will control and then upgrade to synchronized toys after that. The point is to have fun and don’t be afraid to experiment!
Jennifer Craig has been in a successful long-distance relationship and started SurviveLDR to encourage those who want to pursue love with partners in far land.
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