Now He Can Control Your Orgasms From Afar With This Remote Control Long-Distance Sex Toy

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Comparison

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Rating

Joy

Bluetooth Connection Strength

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Matching Toys

Review

Price

Where to Buy

Vibease

Vibease

4.5 out of 4

4.5 out of 5

4.5 out of 5

52 dB

Very quiet

$119

$87 with coupon code Jennifer

Lovense Lush

Lovense Lush

4.5 out of 5

4 out of 5

4 out of 5

45.5 dB

Very quiet

$99

Titan + Fuse

Titan + Fuse

4.5 out of 4

4.5 out of 5

4.5 out of 5

71.3 dB

Loud

$269 $242

with coupon code Surviveldr10

After spending over 27 hours of research and testing ten different long-distance sex toys, here are my favorite toys...

#1 - Vibease


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Quality

Wearable clitoral vibrator made of a very soft silicone that almost mimics the feel of skin. Use it solo or by letting your partner take control via the app.

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Price

Vibease currently sells for $119 $87 which is the one of the cheapest we could find.

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Our Rating

It can add some spice to your long-distance sex life without being an enormous investment. If you want a wearable, internet controlled clitorial vibrator, then the Vibease is one of the best options out there.

PROS

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    It's very quiet
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    There’s a huge marketplace of erotic stories that you can listen to while using your Vibease
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    Affordable price

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    There is no complementary sex toy for your partner, so you both can enjoy the pleasure.

This toy is designed solely for woman’s pleasure… but nestles neatly into the woman’s panties to stimulate from the outside.

The Vibease Vibrator is controllable by your partner through a smart phone, tablet, or computer. The external stimulation is very quiet, almost completely silent.

With this toy, your partner controls all the settings —which means you discreetly receive his loving touches in ways he wants you to feel them. 


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Quality

High quality and super comfortable silicone material.

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Price

Lovense Lush currently sells for $99.

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Our Rating

The Lovense Lush is a great way to have fun inside (and outside) the bedroom. The vibrations are powerful yet nearly silent, and the bendable Bluetooth antenna makes it one of the longest control range wearable Bluetooth vibrators.

PROS

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    A range of app control settings for mutual notifications of pleasure
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    High quality and super comfortable silicone material. 
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     One of the longest control range out of all wearable Bluetooth vibrators.

CONS

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    The external tail does provide some minor clitoral vibratory stimulation. However, it is not enough to use it as the main source of clitoral foreplay.

The Lovense Lush is good solution for a vibe you can use solo or have it controlled by your partner. Unlike some vibrators that you slip into your panties (like the Vibease), the Lush is an internal vibrator, which makes it a little bit more discrete and a little more secure.

Is the Lush Loud?

One of the things I like most about this remote control vibrator is that it’s an internal vibrator. The material is super comfortable, and when inserted, it’s nearly silent, so you don’t have to worry about anyone hearing it. (Whether they hear your moans is entirely up to you!)


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Quality

Made from impressive and discrete design.

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Price

Kiiroo Titan + Fuse  currently sells for $298 (or $242 when using our 10% off coupon code Surviveldr10 at the checkout page)

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Our Rating

The Kiiroo Titan + Fuse offer an incredible experience in a sophisticated package. Its ability to sync with visual content and other devices can bring your wildest fantasies to spectacular life. It’s certainly an investment but represents good value when compared to adjacent products. We’re impressed with the scope of its capabilities and are confident that it’s a solid choice.

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    Impressive intensity and vibration customization
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    Syncing capabilities to partner device and adult movies.
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    Real feel authenticity

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    The Kiiroo Titan is pain to clean 

Other Long - Distance Remote Control Sex Toys I've Tried:


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Quality

Small and powerful G-Spot soft remote-control vibrator that feels good, easy to clean and can be synced with other Kiiroo toys.

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Price

OhMiBod Esca currently sells for $119 (or $101 when using our 15% off coupon code Surviveldr15 at the checkout page)

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Our Rating

If you are interested in a wearable, internal, G-Spot vibrator, OhMiBod Esca is an easy first step to experiment with long distance sex toys. If you like it, later on, you can get other Kiiroo toys to sync with your OhMiBod Esca.

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    It is a great toy for beginners
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    You can give your partner control
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    It is small and slim line

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    The battery life isn’t that long (around 1 hour of use time)

Product: OhMiBod Esca 

Price: $119

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Summary: If you are interested in a wearable internal vibrator, OhMiBod Esca is an easy first step to experiment with long distance sex toys. If you like it, later on, you can get other Kiiroo toys to sync with your OhMiBod Esca.

This toy is designed solely for women’s pleasure — but on a “deeper” level. The OhMiBod Esca is a remote controlled vibrator kept inside of you for stronger internal stimulation.

Now your partner could surprise you with vibrations at any time of the day, letting you know he’s thinking of you. All he has to do is control the toy from his smartphone, tablet, computer or his own sex toy. The material is soft, smooth, and easy to clean

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What we like
  • Touch sensitive and sync amazingly well with other Kiiroo devices.
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    Easy setup - takes a few minutes to connect with your partner.
What we don't like
  • The most expensive toys.

Summary: While the Fleshlight Launch + Kiiroo Fuse couple set can be a bit expensive, we think the extra cost might worth it if you are interested in great two-way control experience.

Our 2nd choice for two-way control experience is the Kiiroo Onyx2 combined with the Pearl2. The devices work both ways and connect with each other to provide stimulation for both partners.

Onyx 2 has a serious thrust power (it reaches 140 strokes per minutes), and the Pearl2 is designed as a powerful, touch-sensitive G-spot vibrator.

 

Product: Kiiroo Onyx2 + Pearl2

Price: $299

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Usability
Price
Overall
What we like
  • The Pearl 2 is made out of a soft material that feels good and is easy to clean.
  • Sync amazingly well with other Kiiroo devices.
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    Easy setup - takes a few minutes to connect with your partner.
What we don't like
  • The Onyx 2 is pretty loud, which can be a bit distracting.
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    The actual sensations from the contracting rings inside the Onyx2 are pleasurable, but might not be enough to bring to orgasm.
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    No clitoral stimulation for the Pearl2.

Summary: If you are content with reduced sensations, the Onyx2 combined with the Pearl2 is a great cheaper option for two-way control experience.

 
Lovense Max

“Max” and “Nora” are his and hers toys that can be controlled from a distance—ANY distance. 

Nora has a vibrating arm to arouse your clit and rotating beads for internal stimulation; the vibration and rotation are what your partner will control. 

The Max is a realistic skin-like masturbation sleeve that combines vibration and contraction to simulate sex.

Product: Lovense Max and Nora

Price: $190

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What I like
  • Both toys have multiple sensations that can get you off.
  • You can control both toys from the toys or the mobile app.
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    You can use your music to set the vibrations.
What I don't like
  • The Nora's vibrations are not that strong.
  • The Max looks discreet but lacks the appeal.
  • Max's electric air pump to provide suction and vibrations is barely noticeable even on high.
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    The Max may be too tight for well-endowed men.

Summary: The Max & Nora combination is a great idea for experiencing long-distance sex. However, there are a quite a few issues with both toys.

The Lovense Hush butt plug can be used for short range and long range control through its app. It can be synced to music and vibrates according to sound waves synced to it, so essentially, there's a limitless array of pleasure than can be enjoyed with this butt plug.

Most anal plugs are not equipped with vibrations, so couples, and singles, inevitably miss out on the extra stimulation that this device already has built in. It's our top choice in the anal category.

Product: Lovense Hush

Price: $99

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What I like
  • The smooth, inviting body-safe silicone feels just right
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    The vibrations are definitely strong.
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     The touch pad is easy to use and intuitive.
What I don't like
  • It's quiet enough when used in busy public places, not in quiet places.
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    The curved antennae press a little too hard into the tailbone.

Summary: Hush is a great toy for bringing some serious excitement to anal play, particularly in a long-distance relationship where you need to keep things fresh and sexy.

Whatever remote controlled vibrator or sex toy you choose, it’s going to add some spice to your long-distance love, and who says you have to pick just one? Maybe start with one only your partner will control and then upgrade to synchronized toys after that. The point is to have fun and don’t be afraid to experiment!

Related reviews:
OhMiBod Esca
Vibease
Kiiroo Titan
Kiiroo Flashlight Launch

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About the Author Jennifer Craig

Jennifer Craig has been in a successful long-distance relationship and started SurviveLDR to encourage those who want to pursue love with partners in far land.

  • Britanica says:

    I always thought that you had to go to someone to have molds made. Had no idea you can do it from home haha! That is very daring and I personally wouldn’t do it on myself but I can see guys having a easier time with that one.

  • Frank says:

    I could not resist commenting. Perfectly written!

  • Joe says:

    Excellent reviews.

  • I did not know about a sex toy that I can control using app or bluetooth. Awesome. Thanks.

  • Superb review about sex toy vibrators.

  • Amy says:

    Wow all I can say is wow thx but no thx

  • Matt says:

    These are very interesting! I’m in a ldr for 2 years, and never tried any of these – I should share this article with her

  • Wolfe says:

    This has certainly opened up a new set of options for my special girl, and I. Linked her this page, and we’re both eager to give this a whirl.

  • Gupttindia says:

    I really appreciate this post. I’ve been looking all over for this!

  • Chris says:

    We-Vibe is horrible! Don’t waste any money on it. Theapp barely works and the connectivity will frustrate and infuriate you. Very poor unit for the price point $$$. Both the app and the remote controller have a hard time staying connected. Wish I could.get my money back but the place we got.it doesn’t allow refunds which is understandable but bs because the unit fails. Also pretty upset that this lady would write such a review.

    Jennifer, have you actually tried this in a real setting? Unbelievably horrendous product because it doesn’t stay connected!

  • M says:

    As per above I’ve heard very bad reviews around Lovense and We Vibe products. Shame they are so poorly made and supported as there isn’t a lot of competition in this space yet so options are very limited. Very frustrating trying to find something that can be app controlled. This should be a boon!

  • Alexander Waddington says:

    Do you have anything that my gf could conteolvfor me. You were first up in google and this didn’t match my search.

  • Pamela says:

    I’m looking into purchasing the Vibease for my BF. On the app is the item only accessible by him and him alone?

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