Every relationship usually progresses with different stages. Normally, it will start with honeymoon period. This is when the relationship is new and the couple is just trying to enjoy the chemistry between them. However, there must come a time when the honeymoon period is over and there are more serious issues to settle with your partner.
Although every relationship is different, it is normal for this period to happen after the two of you have started to develop more feelings towards each other and the relationship has progressed with a stronger connection.
Only then, things will start to matter more to you. This is usually when making decisions tend to be harder because there are just so much to consider and simply because you care more.
Obviously, making difficult decisions are harder when you are in a long-distance relationship. In this post, I will share some things to consider before you make difficult decisions with your partner, specifically in the context of closing the distance.
At this point, I have shared my thoughts and experiences about the things that my partner and I considered before making a decision about closing the distance. It was not easy, especially when we had to decide who should make the big move in our relationship. However, we found that considering these 8 points really helped us in deciding. Now I hope that it can help you too.
As always, I would love to hear your own experiences! Do share them in the comment box below!
Christa is in a long-distance relationship with an amazing man she met during an extraordinary holiday. Unlike many holiday flings, this one gets better each day, and they are now preparing to close the distance. She lives in Indonesia, 8000 miles apart from his man. Read her stories about life (including some LDR stories) at her website, christabercerita.com.
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