I’ll be honest; a long-distance relationship can be hard work, which is why so many couples don’t make it! Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it’s also frustrating when you’re missing intimacy. Not just the small moments, like cuddling, but the big sexy moments too like playing with long distance underwear!
So, if you want to make your LDR work, and make sure you’re both satisfied, you’ve got to put the effort in. I’m going to share with you my favorite ways to bring the spark back, as well as the best sex toys for long distance relationships that I’ve found.
Tips to Keep the Spark Alive
Get to Grips with Sexting
You don’t need to be a wordsmith to tell a great story, and sexting is one of the easiest and most satisfying ways to build the erotic tension in your LDR.
It doesn’t take much to start either! I was a little apprehensive about sending X-rated texts at first. But it’s surprising how quickly I got into it, knowing how much my partner was enjoying our flirty messages. I now love receiving sexts from my partner – particularly when they’re unexpected!
Writing them letters can also help show them how much your partner means to you. You can send them a love letters to surprise them!
I love taking a cheeky photo using a long distance underwear and sending it to my long-distance partner. Of course, I’d only recommend sending explicit pictures to a partner you really trust, if it’s something you’re actually in to. Don’t feel pressured into sharing anything you’re not comfortable with.
It’s a really fun way to tease your partner from far away! Grab your sexiest underwear, find the best lighting, and get creative. Just because you’re not living together, or even in the same area, it’s not impossible to share spontaneous sexy moments. All it takes is a little imagination! (Remember, the pictures don’t have to be X-rated, they can just be flirty and cute too.)
Video calling is the perfect tool for long-distance partners and there’s so many ways to enjoy it! I love having dinner with my partner on Skype. We set a time, grab some food, and catch up – just like any other couple. We’ll also watch movies and go for walks together, using video chat; and to be honest, the distance between us seems so much smaller when we can see each other in real time.
But we do use it for other things, and that’s when the real fun starts! Sexy video calls can also be a great way to get each other off. Masturbating together creates and maintains the spark that can quickly disappear in long-distance relationships. Tease each other with sexts and photos, then bring everything together via video. It’s the LDR sex!
But, there is a way to feel even closer…
Synced Sex Toys
What’s even better than masturbating together via video chat? Adding sex toys into the mix! In recent years, technology has evolved to create sex toys that sync together perfectly, in real time. Using these toys, you and your partner will be able to feel each other’s movements instantly.
Plus, the best sex toys for long distance relationships will include some form of
Why Use Sex Toys In An LDR?
I know, I know, it can be intimidating buying your first LDR sex toys. But, there’s a load of benefits to taking the time to masturbate together using toys. Just to name a few:
- Makes you feel closer – The intimacy using LDR sex toys is the closest you can be apart from actually being together. There’s nothing else like it.
- ‘Cheatproofs’ your relationship – If your partner is still getting it from you, they’re less likely to get it anywhere else.
- Allows you to build trust and honesty – It takes a lot to be able to trust someone with control of your sex toy. Masturbating together via toys can provide great opportunities to build trust in your LDR, something that can be difficult to deal with when you’re apart.
Best Sex Toys for LDR
There’s a huge range of toys to choose from for your Long Distance Relationship, which can be pretty daunting, especially if you haven’t tried them before! That’s why I’ve put together a shortlist of my absolute favorites.
Kiiroo Titan + OhMiBod Fuse
A personal favorite for me and my partner! The Kiiroo titan is a handheld vibrating stroker and the Fuse is a dual stimulating vibrator. The combination can not only sync to each other for real-time movements, but also other visual content for bringing your fantasies to life!
Both devices have a real-feel ‘skin’ to them, excellent battery life and the partner controlled app is also noteworthy.
WeVibe Unite 2.0 and Verge
WeVibe have brought out several innovative toys, linked by a smartphone app that allows you to hand over control to your partner – and vice versa!
The Unite 2.0 is a C-design vibrator that delivers sensations to the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously. It’s slim but powerful, rechargeable, and splashproof. This toy has 10 vibration settings and is made from body-safe silicone.
The Verge C-ring is the compact partner toy for men, that can be used solo too. It provides great vibes to the penis and perineum, and is perfect for long-distance partners, thanks to
PicoBong by Lelo
Lelo have become renowned for their luxury sex toys, and the PicoBong is no exception. It’s a butt plug that can be used by you or your partner (or both!), and is controlled via Bluetooth or Lelo’s REMOJI smartphone app.
This is a great choice for adventurous long-distance couples who want to up their sex toy game. It’s gentle enough for beginners, but can also create powerful vibes that experienced users will love! Like all Lelo products, it’s well-designed, with a luxurious look and feel. It’s a little on the pricey side if you’re not sure about anal play, but if it’s something you enjoy, this toy is definitely worth the investment.
WeVibe Couples Stimulator
Packaged in a sophisticated white travel case, this duo of sex toys from WeVibe will help any long-distance couple to keep the spark alive and thriving!
This set includes the popular Sync and Tango toys, which can be operated through the WeVibe app, and connected with other toys, allowing you and your partner to tease each other instantly – no matter how far away you are!
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