One of the big things long-distance couples have to figure out is how to keep their sex life exciting when they don’t get to see each other as much as they’d like. If you just got into an LDR, you might even be wondering HOW you incorporate sex into your relationship at all! Well, hopefully, you have some idea, but all of us can use some suggestions.

It’s no secret that I’m a big fan of sex toys when it comes to long-distance sex. Sexting is fun; cyber sex is even better, but there’s nothing quite like a sex toy to add some excitement to your sex life. I like his and hers matching sex toys, but if I’m really honest, my favorite are remote-control vibrators.

Why?

Because, well, they’re all about our pleasure, ladies. But that doesn’t mean your man won’t enjoy it, too. In fact, he might even enjoy it more than you do.

These vibrators are made for long-distance relationships, as they’re controllable from anywhere in the world. All you need is a smartphone and a Wi-Fi connection. And there’s something so sexy about having your man involved in something that you would normally do alone, especially as the vibrators tend to be small enough and discreet enough to take out in public—if you’re brave enough.

There are lots of vibrators to choose from, but my top two are the Vibease and We-Vibe 4 Plus. They’re versatile and controllable by app, and they both have unique features that will easily spice up your sex life. Deciding on the best one for you will depend on what you’re looking for. Let’s take a closer look at what they each offer.

Vibease  ($119)

Vibease normally sells for $119, but you can receive the SurviveLDR special discount if you apply the code Jennifer or click on this link

Vibease unboxingOK, where to start with the Vibease? This small-but-powerful vibrator has A LOT of pros.

Maybe the best one is that it’s wearable. So if you and your partner are in a particularly adventurous mood, you can slip it into your panties and slip out the door. He can then control it when you’re at work, out to dinner or just about anywhere you dare to do it! Also, it’s completely silent. Advertised as the quietest vibrator on the market, this is the perfect toy for when you want to have discreet fun. The idea of getting it on with your partner in public is a little more fun in theory than it is in practice. You have to find a spot, a position and get everything done as fast as possible in case you get caught. But with the Vibease, you don’t have any of those problems. All the fun of sex in public, without any of the risk. Plus, your partner can control it from anywhere in the world.

Obviously, that’s the most important part as we’re talking about wireless remote-control vibrators that are perfect for long-distance relationships. So how does the controlling part work?

The Vibease is compatible with Android and iPhones and is controlled via app. You just have to set it up to connect your phone to your lover’s, and he can have full control of your vibrator. The best part is that you don’t have to have the same type of phones. All you need is an Internet connection. A fun game might be to put it in your panties in the morning and let your man know, then he can surprise you by turning it on whenever he feels like it. He might just want a little running commentary in return. But I’m sure you can use your imagination when it comes to getting the most pleasure out of the Vibease.

Finally, if you ever want to use this toy alone, it also has a cool feature where it vibrates in sync with fantasy stories so you can turn on a little erotica and let the vibrations do the rest.

Vibease normally sells for $119, but you can receive the SurviveLDR special discount if you apply the code Jennifer or click on this link

We-Vibe 4 Plus ($179)

For a limited time get 25% off the We-Vibe 4 Plus. Normally $179, now $134!

The We-Vibe 4 Plus doesn’t have a very sexy name, but it’s a very sexy toy. It is similar to the Vibease in that it’s a remote-controlled vibrator, but that’s where the similarities end. Unlike the Vibease, the We-Vibe is shaped so that it can stimulate your clit and your G-spot at the same time.

If you’re using it for solo play or when your man’s in town, there’s a wireless remote control so that you don’t have to worry abut using your hands. The best thing about it, though, is that it’s designed to be used during sex, so you can slip it on, then slip your man in, and you can both enjoy the vibrations. I know you might be more focused on the long-distance sex now, but it’s always nice to know that you can get lots of use out of your favorite toys. Plus, I’m sure your man would like to hear about that when he’s controlling it from 4,000 miles away. Again, the toy can be controlled by an app, so distance is not a problem.

When it comes to vibrations, there are 10 modes to choose from, which include the standard vibrate, pulse and wave, and the more intriguingly named bounce, cha cha cha, and peak. I guess you have to try those to know exactly what they feel like, but something tells me most women won’t mind volunteering for that experiment.  If you want to change things up, your man can make a custom playlist, choosing the different vibe, duration and intensity and surprise you with it. Or make your own, and let him control it! Half the fun of introducing a toy into your long-distance sex life is experimenting.

Why not send this article to your man and let him know what to get you the next time he wants to surprise you? A remote-control vibrator won’t ever compare to having your man at home with you—but it can come pretty damn close.

SurviveLDR.com readers: For a limited time get 25% off the We-Vibe 4 Plus. Normally $179, now $134!

Written by Jennifer Craig
Jennifer Craig has been in a successful long-distance relationship and started SurviveLDR to encourage those who want to pursue love with partners in far land.

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